Divorce, Separation & Co-Parenting Support


• Divorce Doula

​• Certified Mediator

• Certified High-Conflict ​Divorce Coach

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How I Support You

Divorce & Separation Support

Personal, trauma-informed support through divorce, separation, and post-separation abuse. I help clients regulate emotions, make clear decisions, prepare for difficult conversations, and move forward with ​steadiness and dignity.

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Mediation & Conflict Resolution

Support for parents navigating custody decisions, parenting plans, and high-conflict co-parenting. I help you stay grounded, child-focused, and prepared for difficult conversations—without escalating conflict or losing sight of ​what matters most.

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Custody & Co-Parenting Support

As a certified mediator, I support families and individuals​ in resolving conflict outside of the courtroom. My approach emphasizes calm communication, clarity, and practical problem-solving, with the goal of reducing stress and avoiding the harm of ​prolonged legal battles.

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About Natasha

Natasha lives in Central Oregon with her son and a clowder of cats. She enjoys spending time in nature, dancing barefoot through the scared landscapes of her life, and following her deeply personal spiritual path. Whether through art, healing, or advocacy, her work is rooted in helping others reconnect to their power, purpose, and ​peace.

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💜 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝗮 𝗗𝗶𝘃𝗼𝗿𝗰𝗲 𝗗𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗮 𝗼𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝗥𝗲𝗶𝗸𝗶? Because divorce isn't just about paperwork. ㅤ It's about what chronic stress does to your body. ㅤ When you're navigating high-conflict divorce, custody battles, or the end of a r
✨ 𝐓𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝟒𝟔. 💜 ㅤ A year ago, I couldn't have imagined everything this year would hold. ㅤ Self-representing through a five-day trial. The finalization of a divorce that took three years and reshaped nearly every part of my life. C
🇺🇸 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦. We celebrate it every Fourth of July. But this year, I found myself asking a different question. 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐦? And... 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭? ⠀ My 11-year-old and I watched a movie set in the 1920
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